My oldest son is a skilled guitar player. Over the last few years, he has studied music theory. He keeps trying to explain it to me. But, I think on that topic, I’m tone deaf. A couple things I understand: music is a gift from God, and when it sounds great, we get a glimpse of something deeply spiritual and powerful. I think we are spiritually wired to enjoy pleasant sounds. When several voices or instruments combine to create harmony (sorry son, that last phrase may be off key), we hear a more beautiful sound than any one individual can make on their own. Romans 12:16 says it like this, “Live in harmony with one another.” This is amidst verses dealing with hardship, diversity, weeping, trouble, and evil. All mixed into this world are wildly different experiences of good and evil. Let us calibrate our behavior so that we are living in harmony with one another. It’s a glorious sound.

The old saying is true, “Time flies when you’re having fun.” Most of us have a ton of fun with our families. Shared experiences, funny moments, distinct memories, all make up our time together. But, it sure seems to fly by as well.

God has given us a gift in our family and it is enjoyable to be a husband and dad. With time flying by, how can we feel confident we’re doing what we should to prepare our kids. Professor and first-time writer for us, Dr. Jeremy Kimble, shares four ideas on how to raise kids so they’re prepared to leave your home.

Last week, I took a group of recent high school grads on a trip near Asheville, North Carolina. We visited the Biltmore Estate. What a magnificent place to visit! I was reminded, despite the beauty and grandeur of that place (179,000 square feet?!), the original builders are no longer with us. It was a sobering reminder that even massive earthly wealth will not last through eternity. Still, I’d recommend you pay it a visit if you can. Tell them Kent sent you.

Embrace uniqueness. Within your family, you probably have some differences of expression, opinion, preference, and taste. Consider how these variations can play well together and make a more harmonious experience than if everyone sang the same note. Enjoy the blend of views and perspectives. Help each of your family members find their own voice in your unique song.

Make it a great week,

Kent Evans
Author of The Manhood Journey, co-founder of Manhood Journey and Father On Purpose.

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