Okay, taking a quiz to see if you’re a godly father may not sound awesome. But, let me explain. 2020 might’ve been the worst year ever—for many reasons. But, what will make 2021 better?
Before you yell “vaccine” (and you wouldn’t be wrong!) I’d like you to consider this: 2021 will be better if you find out how you’re doing as a dad and take the next step to become a more godly father this year.
We’ve created the tool to do just that. If you take the assessment, it will tell you where you are as a dad and give you that one next step. So, start your new year off right. Find out more about The Godly Father Assessment—then take the quiz yourself.
Why did we create the godly father quiz?
Whether you’ve followed us for a day or for years, you know we’re focused on helping dads become disciple-makers. We believe–and the stats confirm–that fathers are crucial in society. We are in a battle for our families.
I’ve seen studies that show as many as 1 in 3 children are growing up in a home today with no father around. Ironically, 84% of teens have a smartphone. Let me put it another way:
It’s more likely for a kid to have a cell phone than a dad in the home.
This is creating major problems. As fathers go, so goes our culture. We surveyed and asked you if our resources, tools, and events have helped you be better, more godly fathers. More than 95% of you said, “Yes!”
You told us way more than that. You said that our resources help you with:
- Trusting God: 12% of you said you trust God more when you’re spending time more frequently using our resources.
- Prayer: 26% more comfortable praying with your wife and children
- Making disciples: 18% more likely to intentionally disciple your kids and 18% said you are more likely to connect with other godly men.
Why do I bring this up? Here’s the bottom line: the more you engage with our stuff—our videos, blogs, resources, and courses, the better off you are as a dad.
Dads are struggling. We can help. You can become a more godly father!
How was the godly father quiz created?
We started years ago by connecting with dads. Over our years of writing and connecting, we’ve been asking dads their biggest challenge for a long time. We’ve had over 2,000 of you answer the question, “What’s the biggest challenge you’re facing as a dad right now?”
Your answers to that question became this post and infographic called the ten (10) great fatherhood challenges we must face.
In our writing blog posts, speaking at conferences, sharing Bible study curriculum and resources, creating digital courses, producing field guides for dads, and hosting retreats and events for guys, we’ve learned a few things. We’ve learned what areas you’re struggling in, what makes a godly dad, and where you can go for help.
What does the godly father assessment, um, assess?
Our Godly Father Assessment helps you know where you are now and how you can make meaningful progress as a dad. It’s free, confidential, and you get recommended next steps as soon as you’re done. You can even bookmark the page and come back for reference as many times as you’d life! Let me explain how it’s set up. We call them the seven (7) Behaviors and the four (4) stages.
The quiz covers seven (7) areas—or—behaviors dads should know. There are seven behaviors that all godly fathers have in common. These are actions we take over and over in an attempt to gain proficiency and confidence.
Behavior 1: Trust God > Knowing how to be a dad means trusting God. What are you trusting in? Is it God? How do you know? Does your compass point true north? You might be a brand new believer or maybe you’re a veteran who routinely ventures into unknown territory. Find out not just if you trust God—but— where you might improve in trusting Him.
Behavior 2: Know Scripture > A godly dad knows Scripture. Does the Bible intimidate you a little, or are you able to apply God’s Word quickly and fittingly to everyday situations? We know that Bible knowledge is a vital tool. Let’s find how much you point your family to the Bible so you can gain confidence in this area.
Behavior 3: Pray Fervently > The godly dad prays fervently. Are you the dad who prays over dinner? Or, are you the dad who has an ongoing conversation with God? Our prayer lives can guide or hinder our fathering. Find out if you’re a new traveler or more of a tour guide when it comes to prayer.
Behavior 4: Build Relationships > The godly dad builds relationships. Maybe you’re the dad who has to be forced to hang out with friends. Perhaps you could be the guy who seeks out other men for mentoring. It’s vital you know where your relationships are so you’re not going it alone.
Behavior 5: Serve Others > Knowing how to be a dad means serving others. Are you the dad who’ll jump in and help if asked? Awesome. But, what about proactively seeking out ways you can serve? Where are you on the “serving others” spectrum? Yes, there’s a spectrum. We’ll show you! Know where you are and how you can go from selfish to selfless.
Behavior 6: Steward Resources > The godly dad stewards resources well. Are you known as the budget guy when it comes to spending? What about how you manage your time? Whether you’re the guy who gives your money and time freely or not, find out where you are and where you should try to head off to next.
Behavior 7: Make Disciples > The godly dad makes disciples. Do you notice the folks who are struggling? Maybe you’re the guy who is “sending” other dads off to help more guys like the ones you just helped. Sweet! No matter where you are right now, find out where you should be and how to get there.
The quiz assesses the four (4) stages you might be walking.
You may be just starting out on your road to godly fatherhood, or you might be a seasoned veteran. Do you really know how to be a dad like God calls you to be? This assessment will help you figure out what stage you’re at in each of the behavioral areas.
Stage #1: New Traveler > I’m just embarking as a dad and want to head in the right direction.
Stage #2: Capable Navigator > I’m navigating fatherhood’s challenges, but want to be more skilled.
Stage #3: Road Warrior > I’ve learned my way around and look to master the habits of fatherhood.
Stage #4: Tour Guide > I’m discipling my own kids and helping other dads find their footing.
Once you complete the survey, you’ll know where you are now and how you can make forward progress. You’ll get personalized results and suggested next steps. This could be a game-changer for you.
Would you take the quiz? Find the Godly Father Assessment.
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