As guys, nothing raises the hair on the back of our necks quite like being told we “have to” do something. It’s just human nature. No one likes to be told what to do—and that includes our kids. Trouble is, it’s hard for dads to make the move from a “have to” mentality to a “letting go” mentality with their kids. It’s tough to shift from telling them what to avoid to teaching them how to make wise choices on their own. If you can master that transition from power to influence, though, it’s a game changer—for you and your child.
