LOOKING UP
Dad, do you have burden bearers in your life? Are you a burden bearer for others? Even those in your own family? Galatians 6:2 says, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” It’s so tempting to become an island and try to live this life all on our own. Pride and selfishness abound. Not only do we need other men, but they also need us. For those of us in America, we celebrate our country’s independence this week. Independence may be good for a country, but it’s trouble for a Christian. Go lock arms with some other brothers in Christ. As you do, take heart. You are fulfilling the law of Christ.
JUST POSTED
Your focus on serving the church will impact all of the other areas of your family life. Listen, being involved in church activities does not make you a Christian. But, you can’t be a godly dad and not be involved in church.
When it comes to church, we often become unfocused fathers. God calls us to be intentional at serving the church. The priority you give to church attendance, worship, and service all need to be intentional and focused. That intentionality is your example to your wife and kids. Read this week’s post about how the focused father is intentional about the church.
ALONG THE TRAIL
Three freedoms every dad can enjoy:
FREEDOM from Guilt. Romans 8 tells us there is no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus! Dad, your past doesn’t disqualify you. Keep running the race. Don’t believe the lie that you’re too far gone to reengage.
FREEDOM from Disconnection. Don’t go it alone. Strive to live in a community with other dads. Often, you’re just one call or text away from connecting with another guy who can be a running buddy. I enjoyed a prayer huddle this morning with three other godly men who prayed for me and my family. Powerful.
FREEDOM from Anger. For many of us, anger is wrecking our families and relationships. If you need help, check out our new digital course the Anger Free Dad. You’ll stop kicking stuff (as much), or your money back.
YOUR NEXT HILL
Get connected. Have you been going it alone “Mr. I Don’t Need Anyone But Me, Myself, and I?” Have you bought the lie that independence is manly? Have you passed that lie onto your family, inadvertently, and now, your kids are heading down the same self-isolated path you’ve been on? Find a dude, have some coffee, and start building that bridge. Your kids will notice and emulate you. Happy Interdependence Day!
Make it a great week,
Kent Evans
Author of The Manhood Journey, co-founder of Manhood Journey and Father On Purpose.
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