Being An Example, Not The Hero – Overwhelmed to Intentional (Part 4)
What if trying to be the hero in your home is actually hurting your kids?
In part four of our From Overwhelmed to Intentional series, Kent and Lawson unpack a subtle but critical distinction every dad needs to understand: the difference between being an example and being a hero.
Many dads feel crushing pressure to be perfect, to have all the answers, and to never mess up. Others check out completely because they feel unqualified. Neither path leads to biblical, healthy fatherhood.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why Scripture calls dads to be examples, not saviors
- How being “the hero” can quietly tether your kids’ faith to you instead of Jesus
- Why humility, repentance, and presence matter more than performance
- How to disciple your kids even when you don’t feel spiritually equipped
You don’t need to be flawless to lead well. You need to be faithful, present, and pointed in the right direction.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the pressure of fatherhood, this conversation will help you breathe, recalibrate, and lead your family with confidence and clarity.
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You’re not a father on accident. Go be a father on purpose.
Publish Date: February 6, 2026


