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The Bible not only comforts but also convicts, urging us to transform as dads. How do you respond to your child’s mistakes? You can tear them down or FOCUS on restoration, redemption, and renewal. Point your kids to God—the God we see in Romans 5:19-21#1 RestoreFor as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous (Rom. 5:19). Adam brought sin into the world—that’s us. Jesus brings restoration—that’s what we need. Your kid isn’t somehow further from Christ than you are. We’re all Adam’s in need of Christ. Growth in His likeness is life; anything else is death. When your child makes a mistake, instead of reacting in anger—pause and calm down. Approach the situation with restoration. Ask, “How can we fix this together?” This creates a teaching opportunity for growth. #2 RedeemNow the law came in to increase the trespass, but where sin increased, grace abounded all the more… (Rom. 5:20). The law reveals our sin, but God’s grace continues. We often fail to extend grace to our kids. Rules matter; but when broken, we should pick redemption over condemnation. When your child stumbles, engage in conversation, give grace, and prioritize relationships—that’s the look of redemption. #3 Renew. …so that, as sin reigned in death, grace also might reign through righteousness leading to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord (Rom. 5:21). Redemption leads to complete renewal, but until then, we experience glimpses of grace. While it may feel like you can give too much grace, Scripture reveals a God who balances judgment with grace—continually. Live out this grace, embody renewal, and guide your child away from sin by pointing to God’s daily mercy.

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When the Bible Hits Hard: Sometimes, the Bible doesn’t just comfort us—it challenges us to rethink our attitudes, actions, and beliefs. We’ve all encountered challenging Bible verses that are hard to accept, passages that seem too difficult to follow or that make us uncomfortable. These verses often stir up resistance, leading us to wrestle with God’s commands. Learn how to stop avoiding tough scriptures and start letting them guide your life, transforming you into the dad God has called you to be. This episode will challenge and encourage you to embrace even the hardest parts of God’s Word, knowing they are meant to build you up, not tear you down.

GAIN INSIGHT

Dallas Willard: “Grace is not opposed to effort; it is opposed to earning.”

John Calvin: “When it is a question of our justification, we have to put away all thinking about the Law and our works, to embrace the mercy of God alone, and to turn our eyes away from ourselves and upon Jesus Christ alone.”

Henry Cloud: “You can’t change what you don’t acknowledge. The first step in transformation is owning what you’re doing.”

Tim Keller: “The gospel is this: we are more sinful and flawed in ourselves than we ever dared believe, yet at the very same time we are more loved and accepted in Christ than we ever dared hope.”

TAKE ACTION

Adam or Jesus? How will your kid see God in his mistakes—and in you? You were born in Adam. Be born again in Jesus. This week, be a dad of grace—a godly dad—one who seeks restoration, redemption, and renewal. When your child makes a mistake, take a moment to seek forgiveness, grace, and growth rather than anger and frustration. No matter what your kid does, be the dad who surrenders his life to God daily—recognizing your need grace as much as anyone under your roof.

Kent Evans
Author of Don’t Bench Yourself, co-founder of Manhood Journey

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