Many guys tell us they feel inadequate as husbands/dads? Is that you? If so, don’t bench yourself! All the greats—from Michael Jordan to Derek Jeter—they didn’t quit after a missed jumper or a strike out—neither should you. Maybe you’ve made some past mistakes, fine. But disengaging isn’t the answer. Galatians 6:8–9 says, For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life. And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. Paul’s idea here of sowing and reaping is all about being holy—in your thoughts and actions. You can sow in the flesh by giving in to whatever you want. Or, you can sow in the spirit by serving God. Here’s how this plays out as a husband/dad/believer. #1 As a husband. Feeling unappreciated can lead to disengagement, especially when you’re arguing with your wife. You can sow in the flesh—allowing bitterness and resentment to creep in. Or, you can sow in the Spirit by actively trying to address issues as they arise. It’s easier to step back and get passive, but perseverance is life. #2 As a dad. After a long day, you can feel overwhelmed by work, family, and life. Frustration might set in after you’ve told your child something for the 100th time. You can sow in the flesh and retreat, avoid, or get passive. Or, you can sow in the Spirit and persevere, stay engaged, and be a guiding light of right and wrong in your house.

Who Were The 12 Disciples and What Were Their Jobs: Being a disciple of Jesus isn’t about perfection; it’s about commitment. The twelve disciples weren’t extraordinary men—they were ordinary people who chose to follow an extraordinary Savior. They stumbled, questioned, and had their doubts, but their willingness to learn and grow transformed them into world-changers. As a husband and dad, our role as modern-day disciples begins at home, teaching our families what it means to follow Jesus.

The secret of your success is determined by your daily agenda. You must sow the right seeds today to reap a better tomorrow. —John Maxwell.

Gospel-centered living means recognizing that every moment is an opportunity to do good, to show grace, and to serve others. —Tim Chester.

You cannot stay where you are and go with God. If you want to experience God’s blessings, you must go where He leads you. —Henry Blackaby.

Kent Evans
Author of Don’t Bench Yourself, co-founder of Manhood Journey

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