“When adversity knocks, open the door and trust God. He’s there,” explained Darren Walter, my friend and Lead Pastor at Current Church in Katy, Texas. Sadly, most of us will experience trials at some point in life. Pastor Darren understands this reality all too well. His insights struck me as we talked. Romans 15:13 says: May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope. Joy/peace—you and I can’t muster these things up by ourselves—they come from God. He is your hope. You can have joy/peace ONLY as you hope/trust in God. You can apply this to being a better husband in two ways. #1 Treasure your wife. Darren pointed out that after his wife’s passing, he underestimated the gift of their intimacy—not just physical—but being known by someone—this person knows what you’re thinking. Consider: If you lost your wife today, would you regret taking her for granted? Let this insight change your interactions today. Be joyful in the blessing of your wife. Don’t take her for granted #2 Thank your wife. Thank your wife for the things she does in your marriage/home/family. Darren explained that he underestimated the volume of his wife’s daily work. From school events to small tasks, her efforts were immense. I bet your wife’s efforts are immense too. There is peace in Christ—and peace in appreciating your wife. Thank your wife today, for everything she does. Trust me on this.

Don’t Be Quick to Anger: For some guys, getting angry is like flipping on a light switch. In a matter of seconds, the light comes on and the tempers flare. Being quick to anger just seems to come naturally. But it doesn’t have to be that way. With God’s help, you can learn to manage your anger issues with some basic strategies that will slow the burn and help you deal with your emotions in a healthier way.

Jeff Bradford and Fighting for the Unborn: While culture typically paints abortion as a women’s health issue, the influence of strong men also can play a role in turning the tide in our nation toward life. Through the Human Coalition, Jeff Bradford is challenging men to step forward and be counted—and protect a generation of unborn children along the way.