As a Christian, teaching kids about money isn’t about dollar signs. It’s about discipleship. For first-time fathers, the A tithe is a biblical principle of giving ten percent of one’s income back to God—before spending your income on anything else. The tithe comes from your firstfruits, not your leftovers. For Christian dads trying to lead their homes well, this isn’t about math; it’s about mindset.

Giving a tithe means trusting that God will provide for your needs as you give from what He’s already provided.

Key Takeaways

  • The Bible defines a tithe as ten percent, given from the firstfruits as an act of trust and worship, not just a financial routine.
  • Firstfruits giving—offering from your gross income before anything else—shows trust in God’s provision and puts Him first financially.
  • Tithing while in debt still matters, as it reflects spiritual obedience over financial circumstances and builds discipline over time.
  • The Bible frames money management as a heart issue, where giving reveals trust and stewardship, not just numbers on a spreadsheet.
  • Modeling tithing as a family practice teaches kids that what we have is the Lord’s.

What Is a Tithe, And How Much Do You Tithe?

The word “tithe” literally means “tenth.” In the Old Testament, God commanded the Israelites to give a tenth of their income, crops, or livestock (Leviticus 27:30; Deuteronomy 14:22–23). That ten percent was the starting line for generosity, not the finish line.

Today, when people ask “How much should you tithe?” they’re usually wondering if that ten percent still applies. While the New Testament doesn’t give a specific percentage, it does affirm the principle of generous, intentional giving (2 Corinthians 9:7) and does not undermine the tithe.

So, how much do you tithe? Many Christians continue to give ten percent—some more, some less—depending on their situation. But the focus isn’t on precision; it’s on priority.

Why Does Giving From the Firstfruits Matter?

In Proverbs 3:9, we’re told to “Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the firstfruits of all your produce…” Firstfruits giving means the tithe comes before anything else—not after the bills are paid and your Amazon cart is full.

This matters because it reflects trust. When you give before you’ve “secured” the rest, you acknowledge that God gives you everything you need, and He can be trusted to keep doing so. Tithing becomes a visible way to put God first in your finances, not just your words.

For Christian families building a biblical financial provision mindset, that order is crucial.

Is the Tithe Gross or Net?

That’s the million-dollar question (or at least the ten percent of it). 

As previously mentioned, the Bible consistently frames giving as firstfruits, which assumes gross, not net. Firstfruits represent the full provision God has entrusted to you before anything else is deducted. 

Taxes, bills, and expenses come later; stewardship starts at the top. While Scripture doesn’t use modern payroll language, gross income most closely reflects the total provision God has given, which is why many believers choose to tithe on the gross. 

This isn’t about legalism; it’s about leadership and trust. If you’re wrestling with this, ask God for wisdom and give cheerfully and intentionally (2 Corinthians 9:6–7).

Should I Tithe If I’m in Debt?

If you’re carrying debt, giving can feel complicated. But here’s the deal: tithing is not a financial transaction—it’s a spiritual one.

If you wait to give until you’re debt-free, you might never start. And even small, faithful giving builds trust and breaks the grip money has on your heart. If your budget is tight, consider reviewing your Christian family budget and building in generosity—however small.

When you tithe, you declare that your financial life is under God’s leadership, not your lender’s.

What Does the Bible Say About Tithing and Money?

Scripture is full of Bible verses about money management that emphasize planning, giving, and living with margin. God isn’t after your paycheck—He’s after your heart. Giving is one of the clearest ways we learn to surrender control.

Jesus praised a widow who gave two small coins, not because of the literal amount, but because she gave out of her poverty (Mark 12:41–44). Giving isn’t about how much you have—it’s about whether you’re trusting God with it.

How Can You Make Tithing a Family Rhythm?

Teaching your kids to tithe helps shape how they view God, money, and themselves. When children see generosity modeled consistently, they grow up understanding that everything comes from God, and everything is meant to be stewarded for His glory.

Involving your kids in the process helps them grasp the principle of firstfruits giving early on. It also reinforces that money isn’t just for spending—it’s for giving, saving, and building up others.

Why Tithing Is About More Than a Number

Ultimately, tithing is not just about “how much.” It’s about “how first.” It’s a regular, practical way to trust God with your provision. It’s also a safeguard against greed and self-reliance.

As you take steps to tithe consistently, you’re not just following a rule—you’re developing a rhythm. And if you want some weekly fuel to stay encouraged and intentional, the Father on Purpose podcast offers a dose of biblical wisdom for dads navigating life, leadership, and legacy.

How often are you supposed to tithe 10%?

Traditionally, tithing was practiced with every increase or income, so weekly or monthly giving is typical.

Does Jesus say to tithe 10 percent?

Jesus affirmed the heart behind tithing (Matthew 23:23), but emphasized justice, mercy, and faithfulness even more.

Should I tithe if I’m in debt?

Yes. Giving helps reframe money as God’s provision and builds trust, even in tight seasons.

Can I give my tithe to the poor instead of the church?

A tithe is given to support the church, while alms are additional gifts given to help the poor.